The Fat Rises to the top….

Friday, 25 May 2012, 16:51 | Category : Uncategorized
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All of you cooks out there know what that means….When you make a stew or soup and the fat congeals on top and that moment where you just scoop it out and get rid of it? That’s been my life for the past couple months. Except I am not complaining…I am actually very happy to be left with all the good yummy bits left in the stew. These are my friends. My real – true friends. The fat has all left my life and I feel like a weight has been lifted off of me. It happened a few days after the last blow up and again on Monday when I went into the hospital-the crack in the head moment…. I had been sensing something for a while before all that happened a few months ago and once it did…a few days after I was…relieved…..I will never partner with anyone again. I learned my lesson hard 2 times and I will be me from now on. On Monday with Drs. and everyone scared to death I might not make it out for days…and I did so good I got to go home that day..Another realization…I was free….no negativity was holding me down like before. I had only love and support from my friends who have known me…for a very long time or just recently….know me and love me for me…..good and bad…and they wished me well and all their positiveness worked…as well as mine and my family’s.
I got home from the hospital to messages of reposts from others and blog posts that were exactly like mine days after…..and then one wise person wrote to me and said…..”Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery”…..and I thought….hmmmm….instead of being angry and frustrated that someone has to copy my posts……..I will look at it as they are copying me because as the definition says— “To imitate someone is to pay the person a genuine compliment — often an unintended compliment”.—and that is what they are doing….Anger—let go….People not liking me and they don’t even know me…making comments about me by words from others…well needless to say…don’t want or need them in my life…Shows me their true character.
I am looking forward to starting my career again. To be bigger and better than I was before my soul mate/son passed. He brought me such positive energy and my Art room became our time together. When he passed he took everything with him of mine. I have become inspired as of late by people who are doing Art and getting me excited again about it. Even the ones in the beginning stages get me so excited for what they do and try!
I am a very Blessed woman. I have THE best husband in the world. The best daughter and the best friends. Friends who I would not trade for anything. I cant wait to stir my delicious stew and kiss and love and hug all my delicious bits of friends in there…and yes….that does sound creepy BAWAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA!

16 Comments for “The Fat Rises to the top….”

  1. 1Katie

    Well said Kel-Belle. You have the right frame of mind. Stay positive, visualize your goals and lean on your friends for support. We love you ;))

  2. 2Robyn C

    You can accomplish anything! You are one of the strongest and most inspirational people I have met. It makes my heart sing to witness this break of light in your life. You are never alone….you are so loved.

  3. 3Dave

    Now that’s what I’m talking about! Love you babe, you’re going to come back better than ever now that you’ve stepped away from the draining negativity you were surrounded with before. Rock it!!!

  4. 4Karen C

    I couldn’t have said it better. You are one amazing friend. Can’t wait to see the new stew :mrgreen: Your words of wisdom gave me a comeplete new out look on some of the things I have been going through, and that my friend is truly a complement.Amazing it is not always art and UTube that teaches us lessons. I will copy this and put it with my positive quotes for when I have a moment of regresstion 😆
    Love Ya!

  5. 5Karen C

    You are one amazing friend. Can’t wait to see the new stew :mrgreen: Your words of wisdom gave me a comeplete new out look on some of the things I have been going through, and that my friend is truly a complement.Amazing it is not always art and UTube that teaches us lessons. I will copy this and put it with my positive quotes for when I have a moment of regresstion 😆
    Love Ya!

  6. 6CraftyCoriC

    You are amazing and I am thankful every day that you are my friend! 🙂

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