BULLYING-NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN ANYMORE!

Thursday, 26 April 2012, 19:47 | Category : Uncategorized
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I want to say a few things. I have been noticing lately ALOT of bullying on the internet, not with children, but adults. I, for one have been stuck in a situation like this too. My Youtube videos being disliked, things being said behind my back, but they make sure I am blocked so I don’t see——childish stuff. Funny thing is this, for weeks before I had been meditating-trying to get the negative out of my life—-things I could not control-and I did this daily….and then all this happened and it took me a few days to realize…things don’t always come and happen to you neatly! The negative WAS gone!!! THEY WERE GONE!!! And that is when I walked away from it all as they still talked and talked about me. Here is a quick story about it….

I had two very, very close friends who apparently had a secret group hidden from me (one of these was my partner) and with in 2 months of one fight another one occurred. I was going to leave my group that I shared with her and start a new one but before I could, I was thrown out of the group I STARTED and blocked. My 16 year old daughter who had nothing to do with it was also removed and blocked. Then, people who had NOTHING to do with this got involved themselves and even spoke of my dead son! WOW-people will stoop to levels you never imagined! (and 2 of these are supposedly Wiccan/pagan/Faerie or whatever she calls herself-as I am Wiccan and Pagan and the things they did were not following our code! And don’t give me how you all know better than I- I am 42 and have been practicing since 13. you are all 10-15 yrs younger than me) They are all young and I understand that they don’t have life experience but I wonder what or how they would feel that the day they get out of the hospital, this is all done to them! And then to have my partner write me and say after it all begins…”I’m sorry I didn’t read your whole email and what it said–I was so mad and didn’t realize you didn’t say what I thought you did”….(Now let me say I loved these 2 girls like sisters and never saw this coming.) And then yell at me when HER friend talks about what went on between us in their group now and then gets mad at me for asking her to stop?  Then she goes on a mad rampage throwing anyone who had anything to do with me out of the group that was stolen from me.  Both of these people took gifts (golden and liquitex and alcohol inks and stamps and stencils and i could go on) from me, one worth hundreds and hundreds of dollars (shipping alone was 200.00) and then a couple days after she got it the first fight started and she wanted nothing to do with me…and about 2 months later this last one…..you would think that a normal person who doesn’t like someone and blocks and kicks them out of their life and talks about them often wouldn’t want that stuff and send it back….That’s bad karma…..But as users do…I am sure her and the other girl will keep anything I sent because they are those kind of people…what can you do for me…..not the right thing…not to mention before all of this happened, my daughter and I both NEVER received the things we  were told she had done for us from her. Oh well…..And then today I was sent her new blog post—which she hasn’t done in months…..and its just like my FB challenge, I started MONDAY! SHE STARTED WEDNESDAY — BEING GRATEFUL AND POSTING IT DAILY….WOW! I am honored to be copied!!!! I am upset because if the other girl would of stayed out of it like I asked, it wouldn’t of blown up as badly, asked her to not take sides and let it be)-but this was planned for a while I guess…I don’t know. I am a much happier person on my path now with noone holding me back or down and I know who I have in my corner and who I can trust and I have not spoken to or about them since the Thursday before Easter. No sorry or have a good life or anything.

Now for one last thing. This is about the YOUTUBE dislikes and copy-write violations and people getting followed and thumbs down and tortured by a certain individual who has left 2 names up on her blog of women who she is jealous of and says she hates but boy does she ever follow around and is a very passive aggressive person. She only has balls when people are behind her and is not a nice person. One thing my ex-friends do know about me is i would always have your back……it did not matter….whether we like each other or not…I was always there for u 2. This person is nasty and plays innocent and is all good as long as she has “her” crew around her. See….here is the funny thing…I said before-I don’t block people..come at me straight on if you have something to say. I know alot of my friends choose to be on both sides. To me there aren’t 2 sides. Its 2 different groups. But when you mess with people I care about…….I get mad……and your karma will be coming right back at you my sister………ENJOY! And I have to laugh….her fibro is so bad she cant move for months? or was she hiding…I have so many more things than you do and I don’t take it out on others or whine or can’t move….I have a bad day…..or 2 yes….but months? Gosh, seems like the fibro has calmed down enough now since you are stalking and talking alot of passive aggressive shit.

I have not spoke of this or to these people since before Easter. (this happened wed. before easter) I never posted on my blog or FB page or in my group. I left it go when I realized it was ok to. I will never be in someones life if they choose not to have me and I will not have negative people in my life or people who provoke me. I am tired of all the BS that has been said or sent to me or things said and people reposting to me whats been said. I have not spoken about anyone or to anyone since before Easter. Those who do know me, a year ago I would of freaked and tore them all apart and been a wild woman as I have been known to be. AND bringing my daughter and my dead son into this was as low as one can get, and even then I didn’t freak. But I have grown some…and have learned to wish others well and move on. I did not do anything to be treated this way from them and apparently they have pack mentality. I will support those who have supported me and have been there for me. I am worth more than to be thrown out of peoples lives as trash, not needed and then talked about by people who do not even know me.My future is bright and I have some great things happening and I could not be happier!

This will be the first and last post I write on this subject. I have not spoke about this all month and will not again. I wish all well and hope they move on and stop all this craziness. Isn’t that what you all wanted? To move on with out me? So please….go ahead. I don’t unlike your vids-don’t unlike mine…..Please grow up whoever is doing this…..If you have an issue please come tell me and quit playing anonymous games. And if you write a reply on here without your real name-it will be deleted. I don’t play that way either.

Many Blessings to you all on your journey!

19 Comments for “BULLYING-NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN ANYMORE!”

  1. 1CraftyCoriC

    I love you SIS*STAR and will always have your back. It makes me SO mad to know people are hurting you. You’re heart is nothing but loving. It doesn’t deserve to be broken. I’m always here for you, and will ALWAYS have your back!
    🙂

  2. 2Liz Rosky

    Gentle hugs and much love to both you and Emily and to Dave as well as we tend to forget what hurts us hurts our spouses as well! I am so sick of the bullies and phonies and backstabbers sometimes I just want to hit delete and say screw Facebook, but that said I have met many good wonderful people in the groups on Facebook! Just wish there was a little note beside people’s profile saying this one is a bully or a backstabber or whatever!So glad you stood up and made another group and let the crap go!Love you and love your group!

  3. 3Annie Bella

    😀 very well said Kelly!!!!! 😈

  4. 4Carol

    I am so sorry you have gotten caught up in such, my friend. God know, life is hard enough…I cannot imagine how hard… but you carry on… I am not doing too well just now, and life is handing me some things to deal with, so am a little quiet. that does not mean I do not care when I read that a friend is hurt. Just be, friend, just be yourself and what you do…that is what attracted me to you int he first place.

  5. 5Shay

    Wow, Kelly… I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. How can anyone create beautiful, meaningful art with so much hate and ugliness in their heart? It sounds like everyone just needs to take a deep breath and cleanse their souls… start over without this terrible experience, so to speak… learn from it, but move on. I once saw a video where someone wrote on a blank canvas all their frustrations and hurt. They then added layers of paint and paper to it until it was hidden and all that was left was a beautiful background to work upon.
    Take care…

  6. 6Pam Latham

    Kelly, you know you are supported and it’s time these undeserving people get a LIFE. When people are miserable in their own lives they want to draw everyone down w/ them.

  7. 7Anonymous

    Those people are so lame and unworthy of your friendship and time it’s better that they’re out of your life. I told you before all of this happened that there was something about both of them that bothered me. I still don’t know how someone could take the gifts you sent and then keep them with a free and clear conscious knowing how much it cost you and all the while planning all of her schemes behind your back at the same time. Unfortunately you give people too many chances. They showed you their true colors the first time they treated you like crap. You let them back in because you felt bad and meanwhile, they’re planning to kick you out and take over the group. What great friends they turned out to be. At least now you know who you can trust and who you can’t. The fact that they continue to do things “anonymously” to you and Christy is proof enough that they’re miserable and totally weak-minded bitches with nothing really worthwhile going on in their lives. Good riddance to them.

  8. 8Dave

    That was me, by the way!

  9. 9caz

    I don’t want to write loads here, just that I noticed a certain person was back again and I will be removing one of my friends as she is friends with “fibro person” and I don’t want to be in contact with her, even through someone else. I sent her stuff too – even a webcam that we didn’t use any more and she now has video recording stuff-not bad for someone who can’t work and bring in a regular wage!
    I have pulled out of all groups – I watch (and enjoy) your You Tubes – but I’ve had health issues like you and don’t have the energy or time to be involved, and I worry if there are “hidden meanings” in people’s posts – no longer trusting many people!
    Keep strong Kelly – you are a special, honest lady, like Christy and do not deserve all the crap that you have been suffering!
    Hugs
    Caz

  10. 10Angi

    As an advocate of love and kindness, I will not condone negativity. I am holding your intentions to let go of the hurt and move forward with love and peace. I am honored to call you a friend and I will always treasure this connection we have made. You have brought together so many wonderful and talented people. You encourage us and shower us with love and support. That to me speaks volumes. You have my empathy, love, blessings, prayers, positive energy and gratitude, always! ♥ Angi

  11. 11Christy

    Kelly I too have had my fill of the “virgin martyr in white” {that is my personal nickname for her}. The baby talk that she speaks in the open and the vicious things she does when she thinks no one is watching are becoming more and more obvious.

    I have begun documenting everything and saving copies of all of the things I am sent as proof. The best way to build up a legal case of harassment is to document it.

    With my real name publicly displayed on her website she crossed the line. Even worse when she removed all context to the conversation but kept my name on it and used the excuse she was doing it for all of the lovely comments. Not all of those comments are lovely.

    I wasn’t a business partner in WPS and yet if you read it you almost get that impression. It is as if she is attempting to blame me and label me for her own wrong doing.

    She can’t trust any of her friends because she has built her castle on top of quick sand. None of them can. When you constantly gang up on others and yet bring little to nothing to the actual art journaling community you will cease to amuse and begin to annoy. It is my belief the virgin martyr is reaching the point of complete irrelevancy.

    The other two have {I would say three really} shamed themselves. I have read many of the things they have written in private messages to me. The way they talked about the very people who now support them was horrible. If their supporters only knew the truth.

    I hope you can forget, and be free of them all. Until my name is removed and the harassment ends I won’t be forgetting. I intend to file charges against at least one of them. And soon I think. They need to learn that what they have done to me is real, online is real, and bullying is real. And it comes with real charges and real consequences.

  12. 12Poetic Dreams "Poe"

    I have no clue who ya speaking of hun. but I do know the feeling of being used for ideas & “fake friendship” to get what they wanted then tossed & blocked. It’s not a nice feeling when they speak ill of ya. Again I can relate. All I can say is I wish ya much success & a life full of REAL Friendships & tons of Love! I think ya brave for speaking on this subject. Big Poe Hugs!

  13. 13Trish

    Talk about double standards, you all complain about bullying when in actual fact you go and act in the exact same way? Pot is calling the kettle black there.

  14. 14kellyd

    Hmmm….i dont know a trish or have ever associated with one in this group except my friend trish…..I do have your ip number and a tracker so I will see where this is from. I have never bullied anyone and if you have proof please give it to me….I am not a bully as you can see Most of the people from my old group followed me!

  15. 15kellyd

    OH AND WHEN YOU WANT TO LEAVE YOUR REAL NAME…..WE CAN TALK kthanksbye!!!!!!

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    Wnat is your name? i dont know why…noone has commented on this for a while….i have posted other ones?

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